a little more then friends
March 5, 2008 10:35am CST
I have a good friend, actually shes my bestfriend. Me and her have dated a few times back in the day and it got serious but now we dont really do that anymore, well until lastnight that is. I went over to her house and we'll we did the deed and we talked this morning and everythings all good and we were just having a good time or whatever but at the same time i wonder does she actually like me or are we just really good friends. I want to be her bestfriend and me, personally, I dont want a relationship right now and im not sure how she feels on the subject, last time i checked she didnt want one but at the same time i feel like the connection and this weird feeling in my gut telling me that this might happen more then i think. But should I go with the flow or should I just be like 'no'??
5 Mar 08
as long as u r clear about wat u want and both have same ideas i guess der's nothing wrong in goin wid the flow.. dun stress urselves n confuse urselves much.. who knws dis might jus turn out to be a wonderfull relationship r jus be here like u want now.. nyways my advice wud be to jus let it b the way it is now... time will show u its course.. gud luck. god bless.
5 Mar 08
that's a prety hard situation you have there. but i'm happy that you're honest with your feelings though. i guess you like her but you are just denying it. but of course, like what you said, you don't want any commitment right now. why don't you ask her personally if she also like you or not. maybe her answer to you question will make you change your mind. who knew?
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5 Mar 08
Well, I think as long as you are honest about your feelings, that it would be ok to just go with the flow. There is nothing wrong with having fun together as long as you are both on the same page. you never know, it may turn into a relationship that you'll both want. But if you just want to remain friends and not be in a relationship, make sure she knows that up front. Also, see what she wants out of it. You may end up wanting something that she doesnt.