Listener is a good friends?
By yellows
@yellows (245)
Malaysia
March 6, 2008 6:10am CST
I got a friends that always listen about my problem. She listened all of what I say and she didn't talk much. Im not sure if she bored as listened me but I saw she was very patient. So far I found that a listener is a good friends. Sometimes I also listen my friends's problem. I know that Im not a good listener but Im glad I still have patient to listen my friend's problem. Do you have a good friends that you call as a listener? I never take advantage to my friends that like to listen others problem. I believe they concern of us too.
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@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I think that is one of the most important things about being a good listener. You have to listen!!! If you are constantly talking, you are not likely to be listening. It is better to let the person talk, and if they stop you encourage them to go on. That way, they know you have heard them and are interested in what they have to say. I try to be a good listener and I hope that when I have to say something, that others will have the same respect for me.
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@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 08
What you say is absolutely true. Others will respect us if we listen to them also. I ever make this experiment. I'd meet somebody and I let her talk talk and talk. I found that Im getting bored with her. And the other day I make myself talk talk and talk and I found that the person that listened to me seem bored and not like me. I also dont like people that talk too much. So the best action is listening and also talking, make it avarage.
