Is it easier to fall in love? Or to fall out of love?

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Philippines
March 8, 2008 9:13am CST
I always thought that falling in love is easier than falling out of love... I am a hopeless romantic so don't blame me! hehehe! How about you? What do you think?
5 responses
@queenofarms (1665)
• United States
10 Mar 08
I think its easier to fall in love...I tried for 2 years to stop loving my husband after he left....But I could never stop...And thank God I didn't because we reconciled..
• Canada
9 Mar 08
Falling in love is definetly easier because when you like someone, you see nothing but perfection and only happy memories exist. But falling out of love is just brutal and painful, because even though your feelings may have faded, your partner's feelings may not be the same. And having to leave a routine (which is what relationships essentially become after being with someone for some time) is very hard, since it's changing the lives of 2 people.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
9 Mar 08
hmmmm... based on the experience i had with my ex, i think in some situation falling in love and falling out of love can be easy. in some situation but not at all time. once you got turned of on what your partner has done then falling out of love is as easy as falling in love. some people also falls in love with someone else even they are still in a relationship because they are having problems with their current relationship. i heard my friend said once that you can not seduce a happy person, so if they are satisfied with their relationship they will not be that easy to fall in love or fall out of love. so i will go for it is only easy it depends on the situation.
@rashmigs (400)
• Singapore
8 Mar 08
Well, its easier to fall in love. Falling out of love can be easy/difficult based on the below 3 situations. 1 - If u had a fight and broke up, then its easier to fall out of lov... cos u will have hatered towards eachother 2 - If, one of them ditches the other, then the other person, feels really difficult to fall out of love... cos she/he probably still loves him/her 3 - You may be forced to fall out of love, cos of elders/parents/society/fate. In such cases, its definitely going to get worse. It become hard for both the couple to come out of the situation... It takes real hard time to fall out of love. What do you say? Am i not right? Hope such things dont happen in anybodys life... Fall in love and rise in love... Never fall out of it. Good luck buddy!
@wisconsin26 (3861)
• United States
8 Mar 08
Hi Vista.... I think it's easy for both.. Sure a person could easily fall for someone and when there is nothing left between the two it's very easy to fall out of love too... I think alot of people go threw this.. there isn't much one can do but work on being with the person when it comes to falling out... It's happen to me.. but sometimes it's hard to fall back into love with the person after falling out.. Just my oppion!