March 10, 2008 7:06am CST
Hi Friends! Would like to know whether it has happened to you or not.Sometimes you give advice to others in a given situation but when the same situation arise with you,you act differently.Is it easier to give advice to others but not implement on ourself?Just like to know how you react?
2 responses
@nAyOhMi14 (298)
• Philippines
30 Mar 08
yah, there are some people like that, but not all. Like me, I'm able to give an advice on my friends even in online forums because i have experiences that related to their problems or sharing what I've read or learned from particular books and situation. I always posses myself to their situation so that i could really understand them. Listening and giving advice is not enough, you should also know how to understand.
• China
21 Mar 08
Yes, it is. when you give your advice to others, you stand as a third person, but when you are in the same situation, you are yourself, can't see the whole picture; and the most likely people like to sort their own problems in the familiar way.