Who should start the love making

India
March 12, 2008 9:22am CST
Its whose responsibility to start the love making.
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8 responses
@Chey1970 (1193)
• United States
12 Mar 08
This is the first time I hear initiating love making as a "responsibility". I personally think to keep your love life spiced up, it has to have variety. Both parnters should try their best to please the other in initiating the love making session so it doesn't feel like a chore, or obligation.
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@Bethany1202 (3432)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I think it's both partner's responsibility to start the love-making. It doesn't have to always be the same person to initiate love, whomever wants to initiate should. There should not be a set person to do so.
• United States
19 Mar 08
for me its the man. i think its great when a man starts making the moves onto me and makes love to me!
@jenni7202 (1598)
• United States
13 Mar 08
It shouldn't be just one persons responsibility. That would make the process of making love less intimate and in my opinion more boring! I feel that if your in the mood, you should initiate, and whether your partner is in the mood or not, at least you tried. I'm usually the initiator, but it's always great when my man initiates before I get a chance to.
@lateesha (94)
13 Mar 08
in a relationship it is up to both the woman and man to participate in both relationships so i think both should start together
• United States
12 Mar 08
i think we both should because we are in love together so we should start it together. well thats my opion
• Philippines
12 Mar 08
According to the dictionary, responsibility is a particular burden of obligation upon one who is responsible. I don't think that lovemaking should be seen as a responsibility. It is not something that one must do just because of prior agreement. Lovemaking comes naturally and it doesn't depend on one person always to start things up.
@klaudyou (501)
12 Mar 08
Well, let's face it...boys always have the idea first, and they are usually the first to suggest it. It's a normal thing, since they are more...let's say..."curious". But what if the girl, some times, make such a suggestion when the boy is not expecting...I can tell you the result would be twice as better as if the boy would. Because girls are sensitive, and this thing is very well-known by boys, so it would make them feel great, and this would lead to better "efficiency", if you know what I mean...it may be not last so long, but it would happen more frequently ;)