i need help on my cousin
March 12, 2008 6:39pm CST
ok so my cousins boyfriend shot his cousin and now hes getting charged with attepmed murder and remind you she loves him s much and now hes going to jail. she is very depressed and she cant take life no more and all i can do is talk to her but i want to do more. please people give me sum advice so i can help her. she needs more support and i want to give it to her. help me please.thanks people
14 Mar 08
I think your cousins' boyfriend really violated the law, and should and definitely will be imprison. Shooting his cousin is really a server crime, no matter whether irreversible damages have been made or not. Suppose he doesn't have to go to the prison, but I see potential criminal genes in him. He might offend your cousin later. So, just try to divert her attention from her love to somewhere else. Maybe you can take her to some places for a visit something, and in that case, she may temporary forget what happens to her boyfriend. I don't know if that works. You know people in deep love may not necessarily be a sensible and rational people.
• Davao, Philippines
13 Mar 08
law is law...we can't do anything except to follow the low....he made it so he must sentenced according to his doings...anyway, it not a big charge against him because the victims still alive and his case is only attempted murder...more chances that he will be out of jail later on...also you can ask apologize to the victims and make a reconciliation with family of the victim...who knows they will grant your request.
• United States
13 Mar 08
Let her know that it isn't the end of her life. If someone is willing to attempt murder on his family what makes her think that he wouldn't attempt murder on her as well? Let her know that while you know it's hard for her to be going through this, that she needs to understand that there are better people out there, and that she will find someone else to love.