what can I do?

Netherlands
March 14, 2008 2:20pm CST
I'm a college student,exactly an applicability school.Why I am here? It's just because of some complex reasons about going aboard through an agency.Anyway,as I'm going to apply for a university these days, I spend more and more time on my application. Everybody knows, there is something called "group project" in such kind of school where I am studying in. I have to say,I've got a good team that everyone wants to achieve higher goals,me too.So,in order to be honest,I told them my plan,about the application to the university.It seems not bad,i mean at the frist time.But,things go worse these days.Because of some reasons,like,I was asking for some helps when I couldn't handle the work they divided to me,it took some of their time to help me through,which actually made someone thought I was telling them to do my work,what's more,I left during a meeting cause the other boy was leaving so I thought the meeting was almost done and I forgot the next meeting...I didn't mean to do these,but,when these things been watching through their eyes might be totally different,it seems like,I do not need the grade while they are hard working for it,so I won't try my best like them.So thet talked with me,made a worning about the things I've done(I known it was my fault before) and ask if I wanna quit. As a group,I don't wanna despite them anyway,although I really don't know why I'm still attend class everyday in a school I will quit.But there is one thing really clear that they are no longer trust me as before because they are thinking it is no need for me to work hard any more,working with me can not let them feel safe because they are afraid of my leaving since the deadline of handing in our report is really near.Leave them now seems like some kind of responsibility,they said now is better than later. Quit the group seems like I should give up my courses about 'GROUP PROJECT',I can still go on with other courses, it's ok,I mean I do not need the grade and without worry about group working I can back to my country as soon as I get the offer.But still,I'm not sure,will things be better if I leave my group now? What can I do exactly? Is there anyone can give me a hand?
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