what are the qualities best friend need?

@Dasari100 (3803)
Anantapur, India
March 14, 2008 9:32pm CST
Hi frineds i would like to ask one wonderful question that is to be as friend what are the qualities we need to treat as a good friend because it influences very much in the friendship so automatically it focuses on friendship either that person good or bad so it is best thing to avoid to bad qualities so we need to get good qualities. how can we get and did you have any practical experiece on this one? in my life i faced so many things so i know how to behave and how to respect opposite person, if you know anything share with us. it will be useful to all our mylot numbers.
10 responses
• Philippines
3 May 08
yah that's a wonderful question.. I think the qualities of a good best friend is you need to be approachable, trusted, not a back fighter, giving good advice, Comforter, understanding, and respectful! so that qualities should be in you!
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
3 May 08
I know best friend need those qualities like trust opposite person and comforter,understanding,respectful each other and he/she encourage always to other person and i am implementing all the principles in my life so have you implemented those points in your life?
@balasri (26553)
• India
11 Apr 08
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else.A best friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself.A true friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
11 Apr 08
A best friend always believe us and he do anything for us and he respects always for our words most of the time he has more patience to listen our words. He likes you forever and ever and luckily i have those kind of friends.
@LucyZhang (313)
• China
10 Apr 08
Hi Dasari! It said that if you want to understand a person, just look at his friends. one person and his friends must have some same qualities which make them more close. One who stays near vermilion gets stained red, and one who stays near ink gets stained black. So it is important for us to choose a friend according to their good qualities. In my opinion, my best friend must a honest and warm-hearted person at least. I am so lucky, I meet several such persons in my life.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
11 Apr 08
Luckily you have good friends and you are enjoying life so most of the people don't have best friends because there are so many reasons behind them and we can few people who can be honest them self and opposite person.
• China
16 Mar 08
yeah, i have many friens but no best friend. They are just normal friends. they can be my colleagues, my classmates or relatives, even friends with only just one meet. I have no intimate friends. I think the first important quality for my intimate friends must be to keep the secrets. I love to say some my secret life to my friends, but if he or she takes me as his or her truly friend, he or she should keep my secrets as his or her.In reality I have no much time to spend to keep in touch with them, so, less opportunities to communicate with each other.bit by bit, I lost some of them.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
Some information need to hide them self it self because no one do like that and we can do friendship with our relatives,friends,brothers,sisters so there is no objections at all.
@Tehgamer (275)
• Trinidad And Tobago
16 Mar 08
Best friends should have many qualities that make them lovable, and stand out from the rest. In my opinion, what makes somebody a best friend, and not just a friend, are the traits that they have. These can include things like: Loyalty - they should b someone who you know you can trust if you get into a sticky situation and who you can tell anytihng to, knowing they will not let it out. Amiability- They should be nice, freindly people who are easy to get along with Fun and interesting - They should make every moment spent with them feel fun and special. Hanging out with tem should never be boring. One or two little quirks - They should be kinda wierd so that it adds to the general memories you will have of the times you shared. These are just some of the things I look for in a friend. It may be different for others but my bests FRIENDS are the best in the world and I would do anything for them.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
some times friendship turns to love but in my way i didn't fell it and i have good friends but most of them are won't be familiar with me.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
16 Mar 08
i think a friend is best friend when the friendship is without expectation from any side. also there should be immense trust between the two. the friendship should not be based on any advantage taking thing. Most of all both must reciprocate the feelings of trust.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
First of all there should not be a certain conditions between them and it should be from each other then you need to understand each other and they have to share their views each other.
@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Mar 08
the most important qualities that a friends have is understanding. we do not know what happen next, in friendship we can't consider that no problem arise. if your friend have this quality she/he understand you, we are not perfect so we can commit mistakes.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
Mutual understanding is must for everyone without that one impossible to find good friends and everyone should have those qualities to need to friends.
@Dest274 (100)
• United States
15 Mar 08
i have friends 3 diffent catagories of friends my people i know and can talk to but keep it short and never call.. my people i call talk to but dont tell my secrets to excepting them for them but knowing my limitations and my best friends the ones i can laught and trust but i never tell anyone my secrets i'll talk to my self in the mirror before i tell my secret
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
we have different type of friends but most of them are self fish minded now because everyone is looking for use another person so we need to find good friends.
• Indonesia
15 Mar 08
I know that there are qualification to become a good/best friend, but actually friendship itself based on take and give. If you want a good friend, just be good friend yourself. If you can accept your friend as he/she is, and also he/she can accept you mutually, she/he is your best friend. But the only thing is just respect and treat your friend as you treat yourself.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
I agree with you and i always be friend my self so there is no gaps to full fill my self. so i can give my best to friends most of the time.
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
actually im not asking to much for a friend i just dont want lies ..loyalty is always a best key.
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
10 Apr 08
That is really good to know the facts like you so most of the time i believe friends but some times the cheated me.