can i accept him after his stupid drama?
By lucksath
@lucksath (92)
India
March 15, 2008 10:04am CST
"The problem is that I am in love with my cousin.He was the one who persued me and told me he is in love with me.But since last three months he is avoiding me.I have noted from my family members that his family is against our love and he confirmed me in a telephonic conversation that he can't meet me any more.Suddenly yesterday he made me a call and asked me to meet him but I din't. I don't think I can accept him after this stupid drama - and I have come to you for advice" my friend's daughter came to me and told.
I told her "Stop living in a fool's paradise.You have been dumped.It has been three long months since he has kicked you out.Today he is chasing you - forget about him and move on"
What do you think?
3 responses
@divyagupta (94)
• India
17 Mar 08
I too agree that dating a family member was not a smart thing. If he has decided that its not going to workout and avoided you, then cut him out of your life. There is no point in meeting him again.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Mar 08
first of all dating a family member does not seem very bright and smart idea to me at all. then after taht i really can't make out much. but whatever i think that it was ok what has happened.when he kept you out and again chasing you, is also not normal. better to keep away.
@jwin2003 (242)
• United States
15 Mar 08
first of you shouldnt date family members it just ends in retardation i mean heartbreak. I really dont have advice on this because i dont believe in having a romantic relationship with a family member. If ignore that part of the question i would say. Family has a big impact on your life and it would be hard to date someone that your family doesnt want you to date. So she needs to understand the pressure he is under with his family. just be patient love always finds its way if its suppose to be.
