can a heart forget

Hi Georgette. How is it going. I can understand how it feels when you lose your near and dear one's. Well I have also lsot someone forever whom I loved and was devoted for the rest of my life, my husband. We got divorced, and it was a great loss for me I felt. When the case was filed at the court, our daughter was just about a year old. Now she is of 6 years age. All those moments right from our engagement till the last day we saw each other in the court remains in front of my eyes. I just cannot erase those memories from my heart too. I think this is something that no one can do till the end of his life. This is the hardest thing that will always be with me too and unforgettable for the rest of my life. Life is like that. That's what I have understood and accepted the fact about it and moving on and on, for my daughter.

Well, I am sure that it was very difficult thing for you to do. But you have to remember that you are not at fault and what you did was for her benefit. Sometimes, we have to do things for our love ones and hurt them though our purpose is for the good. I think that is not a mistake and is something that we should do sometimes. Well, I'm sure that your mom understands and that you should let go of it.

I don't think a heart can forget. You must go on, 'cause I'm sure that she knw that you couldn't give it to here, okay? Be strong. For you, for her.

i understand how hard it is to be in your situation, even if i were in your situation and i refuse to give my mother a glass of water then die afterwards i will definitely be in a deep regret for the rest of my life. i don't know a thing to suggest that could make you fell less guilty but maybe you should stop blaming yourself and go on with your life. your mother who is now in God's kingdom will surely happy now and i bet she did not hold that fact against you.