i'm not happy...i need help...

@bianx21 (339)
March 18, 2008 3:14am CST
My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday...I didn't know that I'd be hurt like this...I love him...But I want to respect his decision.I want to give him the time he needs...What do I do now?
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@suehan1 (4355)
• Australia
18 Mar 08
my daughter is going through the same thing as she has just recently broken up with her boyfriend as well.she has surrounded herself with all her good friends and they are helping her.i think it will just take time and you will find the pain will ease.i hope al goes well for you ,cheers sue
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@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
18 Mar 08
i've been there before.. i've also been hurt twice.. i fell in love with this person and gave my heart to him, but what do I get? another heart brake.. at first i fell very sorry for myself, I felt lonely and very desperate. can't eat, everything feels numb. but as time goes by.. I still have my friends who always try to cheer me up. I have my parents who understands my condition, and very patient with me. then I realized, there is nothing more that I can do to get him back.. it is his decision, which means that we can't be together.. so I let him go.. away from my heart and forgot about him. now, I found the most wonderful man I have ever met, a person who could really treat me very gently and make me feel very special. so.. one day u'll also find the man of your dreams, as long as you don't close your heart.. let all the love come to you..
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
21 May 08
Go shopping, go for a walk with friends, doing your hobbies, checking discount stuff, and sort of. I never want to trap myself anymore for thinking someone who pulled the trigger. I use my emptiness with something more useful for me.
@elitess (5072)
• Ipswich, England
13 May 08
I got my heart broken about 10 times until now. If you feel sorry for yourself, it will get you nowhere. The best solution would be to put this behind you, and look forward to the future. I am not saying that it's something wrong to be hurt... of course it's normal, but you should limit that period of sadness to a few days (perhaps 1-2 weeks if you've been together for more than a year). Best wishes.
• Canada
26 Mar 08
Coming from the other side of the fence. I've been there too. I think most people have at one time or another. It hurts,it hurts alot. But for what ever reason you are where you are. There is a positive side to everything. If you choose to give him space...so be it. Just don't let your life come to a stop in the mean time. Dosen't mean you have to find someone else either. Sometimes thats the best time to take a good look at your own life. Just kind of step outside of yourself. See your life from a different prespective. Where do you want to be in 10 years. Focus on YOUR life. Nobody can make you happy but you. Don't expect someone else to do it for you. It just dosen't work that way. Love yourself, love your friends, love your family and you will see . He may come back in your life or someone else will come into your life. Either way...you'll have love in your life and everything will be alright
• United States
20 Mar 08
hm, love hurts and soon you'll see that every guy may hurt you but you just have to decide which one is worth the pain...it may hurt you know but when you get up and see yourself much more better you will laugh at the past ! you may be hurt now but this is real " if it was meant to be it will be " remember that ! sometimes men feel like the can leave you and know that you will be hurt ! but when its the other way around they feel like you are the dumbist b*tch ever ! let him know that you are hurt, coming on mylot & telling us isn't going to do him any good ( not trying to be rude ) but just lethim get the space he need and as i said before if it was meant to be it will be ! thanks. -Brittney