Was is difficult to say 'Goodbye'?
March 19, 2008 3:48am CST
I know its very hard to breakup. But how many of you found that it was really that much hard to say goodbye? Or were you so annoyed that you said goodbye within a short time? Did you also get some time to say goodbye or it was abrupt end to it? Also share your opinion how much tough it is to say Goodbye?
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23 Mar 08
Hi subha, I always feel that times pass by very fast especially during those happy moment. In my memory those romantic sweet days when I was young seemed to pass very swiftly and totally unaware of their disappearance. This often happened when I was together with loved one or other close friends. Of course it would be a saddest time when we were to say goodbye to our dear ones.
21 Mar 08
its only tough to say goodbye if you really loved your partner. i have experienced this. it was tough but i had to because i didn't want to cause any more pain to myself. i had to say those words "let's break up" in between clenched teeth while trying my best to hold back my tears. but its easier to say goodbye if you have already fallen out of love of your partner. i've also experienced this. ^__^;; i fell out of love because he was so demanding and i got so choked up. i said goodbye easily but i still couldn't look at him straight in the eye. i guess it was a little tough too.
21 Mar 08
to all my friends & family in Romania... u c, I was born in Romania, and I moved to the US when I was 6, so I said bye to everyone, hoping that I would come back soon, but I never did, and now I'm sad that I didn't realize that then... but then again, I was 6, so idk. it's just sad that I never saw them again. Same with US friends as now settled in India. lolz
21 Mar 08
GoodBye is easy among casual friends as it is parting for the moment and we get to meet again sometime in future. In breakup, the ability to say GoodBye depends on how the parting goes. Often, there is deep emotions and attachment involved. It is not too easy if the one saying it is feeling hurt. It is easy for the one initiating it.
19 Mar 08
Hello dear subha. It is usually difficult for me to say goodbye to my loved ones and my good friends. I hate to say goodbye as it always makes me feel so uncomfortable when I have to leave them for another place or when they have to leave me. Goodbye, dear subha. lol
• United States
19 Mar 08
most of my past relationships, which haven't been many, it was very easy to say goodbye and i left without regrets. the first relationship that was hard to say goodbye was for the wrong reasons and not really love, but it was still difficult for me to leave. it was a mutual thing where we both wanted different things, but we really did care about each other. the most difficult though was when my husband and i seperated for a couple of months. that was the most difficult goodbye i had ever had to say as it was for him to. Thankfully, by the grace of God, we got back together after two months, but it was still rough times until then. God bless