@Alize997 (190)
United States
March 19, 2008 10:35am CST
Would you spy on your significant other if you thought they were cheating?
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@Bev1986 (1427)
• United States
19 Mar 08
Yep, I would... I admit it! If I had any kind of hint that he was cheating, I'd do a little checking around before I approached him about it. I wouldn't want to bring something like that up and find out I was totally way off base... I had a friend that thought her husband was cheating, but wasn't sure. So she followed him home from work one day... he stopped at someone's house that she didn't know. After about 10 minutes, she walked up to the door and rang the door bell. The girl answered and she said she saw her husband's truck outside, was he here? Yes, he was. He was under her sink fixing a leak!!! She was the secretary at his office and couldn't get a leak to stop! She never let him know that she was checking on him... he believed that she just happened to see his truck because it was on a main road... But... two years later, he did cheat on her... and she didn't do any checking because she remembered what had happened the first time. After she found out about it, she said all the signs were there, but she didn't want to jump to conclusions because of what had happened the last time... :(
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
19 Mar 08
no they wouldnt be cheating in the first place if there was trust involved and treating on another the correct way and the same amount of respect was given ..if it came to that tho to answer your question if there was enough things to suspect some things i would nt need to ill just go and never look back
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
19 Mar 08
No. If I thought he was cheating I would ask him. If I did not feel i could trust him i would not want to syat with him no matter what he did or did not do