Love and Marriage..........Horse and Carriage

@tjades (3591)
Jamaica
March 19, 2008 1:48pm CST
Recently I turned down a marriage offer because i just couldnt feel the love. Even now all I can think of is that he was a responsible young man, building his own house and was financially stable. It just seems as if I would end up tolerating the union rather than njoying it. Mr. Right does not seem to be coming along anytime soon. I think I made the right decision but the thing is that he's not the first I turned down and I cant help thinking that it might come back to haunt me. What do you think? Is it better to hold on to what you've got or trust your heart in such matters?
1 response
@nomsyd (69)
• Nigeria
20 Mar 08
if you rush into marriage then you will rush out. dint be in a haste pray seriosly concerning it as your happiness is paramount. dont manage any guy marry a guy who you will be proud to call the father of your children. my dear dont make mistakes ,listen well to your heart.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
20 Mar 08
Thanks for that encouragement nomsyd. Believe me as the years go by and no Mr. Right appears on the scene I keep wondering if I past him up. In my heart I dont feel so. I'll continue to follow my heart. Thanks.