How to help

New Zealand
March 20, 2008 4:26am CST
Hey fellow mylotters can any of you answer this how can you help a sister to get away from her husband that does not want to but you know she would be alot better of with out him.Thanks loveyoohbaby.
3 responses
• Norway
20 Mar 08
we are on the same situation. but i just let her decide for her own because she is old enough.(she is my older sister) but im happy with what is happening now, because my sister is working abroad now with me, so they are miles apart with her husband. Its just that, everytime she can read sms from anyone from our country something negative about her husband, it would still affect her a lot. but life seems to be like this. we can never run others lives. i'll just wait for the time that she will totally realize how stupid she is for staying with her husband.
• Norway
4 Jun 08
thanks for the BR loveyoubaby.. hope your sister has open her eyes and have made a better decision now.
@jona_jz (80)
• Philippines
20 Mar 08
It is your sisters decision to do that but if you really want to help her, all you can do is to make her realize what she can get from being with her husband. Make sure that when you talk to her about that, you point out the negative sides of the situation.
20 Mar 08
You cant. You just have to leave her to get on with it and be there to help her pick up the pieces afterwards.