Losing Friends

Lebanon
March 21, 2008 8:51pm CST
Dear All, I lost 2 valuable friends yesterday, however I felt that it was right to take this decision, as mistakes are counted most from the closest ones... I still don't know if one day they will call back but what I know is that i am not intending to do so as I badly hurt and i feel that i need to get consolidated in this case. The thing is that I introduced one friend to my closest other one and they became friends (which doesn't affect me) but to a point where they became planning outings without me, knowing that I did the impossible with my closest one in terms of services, supporting and faithfullness... Kindly advise, Mark
2 responses
• Australia
22 Mar 08
I have had the same - introduced two separate friends, they became friends, then I kinda got swept to the side. But then nastiness started, they were almost ganging up on me really, so I cut them off. It was sad to cease contact with them because individually they were great friends to me. But the stress was just not worth it. They didn't call me, didnt apologise, actaully they didn't speak to me again. But then I figured they weren't true friends of mine so it hurt less. I still think about them sometimes but I've moved on and found truer friends now. I hope the same happens for you (((hugs)))
• Lebanon
22 Mar 08
Dude... Thx for the advice, well I guess as I am stuborn, I will end up just like you...But I wanted to hear other opinions so I won't take decision alone... Hugs
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
22 Mar 08
Hello dear mikosoft. I am so sorry that you have lost two valuable friends. But I don't think that you have really lost them. Why do I think so? Because they might have developed something in common between each other and would like to go outing alone for their convenience without your knowing about it. I think that it is very natural if they have this special interest. So, my dear friend, please cheer up and be still very good friends. Be happy.