Getting attached to easily?

March 23, 2008 4:35pm CST
I hate getting attached, literally. I dont know, when i fall for a guy, i fall hard. I just got a new boyfriend recently. We saw eachother for like 3 weeks then weve only been oficially dating for like 4 days. We see eachother everyday. And when i dont see him, i miss him like crazy. I know its not wrong to be infatuated. It just sucks how much you can miss a person when you dont see them for a few hours. Feelings not all that great. Do you usually get attached when you fall hard for someone? What do you do to try to keep your cool in a relatinship instead of getting to serious to soon?
2 responses
@subha12 (18453)
• India
24 Mar 08
I am not a type of person who gets attached to someone very easily. May be when i think after some days that a friend or some is trustworthy, i get attached. i think in your case its not just infatuation, its love.Best of luck
@gemini_rose (16194)
23 Mar 08
I was like this with my boyfriend, we met and moved in together in very quick time, but it was not too bad as he is now my husband and we have been together for 9 years. I love him very much, but if I could do it all again, I would do it a lot slower, I wished I had taken more time to enjoy the build up of the relationship and not get so attached so quick, I wish we had just tried to take things more slowly and still had our own seperate times out with friends and times we had together. So I know exactly what you mean, but if you are both happy with things, just go with it, what you are feeling is all normal, just enjoy it all and I hope it lasts well for you. Take care.