Has it happened to you that your boyfriend was cheating with your best friend?

March 26, 2008 9:50pm CST
Once I was going with my car to buy something, it was close to my best friends house. So I went to a surprise visit a suddenly she opens the door and my boyfriend is there. Of course, I easily understood whats happening and left crying to my car. I really loved my boyfriend, we had gone for one year already. What do you think I should do? Should I accept his excuses? Should I forget him? Should I just stay crying for him? I don`t know what to do? If this happened to you what would you do or if it did happen what did you do?
3 responses
@subha12 (18453)
• India
27 Mar 08
No i have never been in any relationship. but i can understand your situation. many men are like this. you have no future with a cheater. just leave him.
4 Apr 08
First rule of a cheater, if he did it once he will do it again. Those who have commented earlier are right, move on. You have no future with someone who lies and cheats. A relationship is built on trust, and he has now proven you cannot trust him. Besides, do you really want to be with someone who respects you so little that he would hook up with your best friend? What's next your sister? I would drop the friend too. She should have known better. They are both to blame and if I were you I would cut them out of my life. You need people who will build you up and make you stronger, not stab you in the back.
@SukiSmiles (1998)
• United States
27 Mar 08
I had a boyfriend that I suspected had cheated on me with a "friend" but I never did find out for sure. After we broke up, he went and asked my best friend from high school to go out with him. She said no. I'm sorry this happened to you. I have trust issues and I would not take him back. It took a long time for me to completely trust my boyfriend, now husband. If that happened to me, I would just keep living life and it might take awhile to move on, I would still do it. I know there are many more men out there.
@kellys3ps (3726)
• United States
27 Mar 08
I have been very fortunate not to have this situation happen to me. I did have a friend in high school who slept with other people's boyfriends, but luckily for me, my boyfriends never chose to do that with her. I would never take my boyfriend back if he cheated on me.