marry or break up
March 27, 2008 3:35am CST
One girl wrote to me , the letter is as follow: I just graduated from college and work as a scretary in the sourth of China, a big city, but my boy friend who lives in a remote city where is not developed, so i suggest that we can earn money here, when we get enough enough money and i get more experience, then we can go back to the city he lives. but he refused and asked me to marry him right now,otherwise we break up. I know he wants to keep me around him, but i want to have more chance to improve myself, i am young, i want to experience more. But i love him, do i have to give up everything to marry him, just to be his life and stay with him in a peaceful life? Please help me. Dana My reply is : Dana, I think you should take your future life in consideration, if you give up to go back to him, will you be happy? If there is something unhappy happened, you will regret. And for this man, he needed a quiet life, maybe what you want is a new and exciting life. so maybe break up is a good choice for you.