how do u overcome the urge to leave ur b.f./g.f.??
By nidbirdie
@nidbirdie (49)
March 27, 2008 5:07am CST
many a times, when i have a fight with my b.f., i feel that it wont work out the way i always want it to be and even if he loves me as much as i do, thats not enough to keep up a relationship... but when all these feelings creep in i start thinkin about all the good times i had with him and the fact that if we are moving since 6 years so we can move on till our last breath too and i start imagining my life without him which makes me melt like anythin and i am more in love with him in the end... what's your idea of overcoming the feeling when u have a fight with ur b.f./g.f.?
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
27 Mar 08
After years together there is a bond. There is also a bond between my family and his. It is safe and secure to be with him. And he is one of my closest friends. As long as there is respect and love and one has a common history I think it is hard to leave. Both because of the bond, but also due to fear and uncertainty. As long as the love and respect and bond is stronger than the feeling of fear of leaving it must be worthwile to stay?
@nidbirdie (49)
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4 Apr 08
i really can connect with u cause in a way i too feel the same things towards him.. there's respect, there's a strong bond and a long running relationship of 6 years.. (touchwood)
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@nidbirdie (49)
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4 Apr 08
its not that... i really love him with every passing moment but he is real short tempered and i know the fight wud increase if i don compromise.. although after the fight is over, he's as lovable and caring as he's always.. so i don consider the fight worth of coming between us and wasting time which we can spend loving and caring for each other..
