Are you a lover or a fighter?
By derfyslove
@derfyslove (245)
United States
October 31, 2006 9:46am CST
If you could describe yourself as one of these, which one would you be and why? Discuss!
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5 responses
@micheller (1365)
• United States
31 Oct 06
well actually i'm both. but if i could only pick one it would probably be a lover. i'm a nice person and i try to get along with MOST people. but sometimes it's hard because they have ignorant people.
@derfyslove (245)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I definitely understand what you're saying! Thanks for the reply!
@billysbabe (578)
• United States
31 Oct 06
i am without a doubt a lover, but dont get me wrong if i need to step up 2 a fight i'm there lolol
@jhannon (1406)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Im a lover i try not to fight with anyone..It doesnt feel good later on if you argue or have confrontations with people..Plus i put myself in soemone lese shoes jsut cause they may be a fighter does not mean i have to sink to there level..SO being nice is just killing them with the kindness thats fine by me..I barely ever argue and dont raise my fists ever..
@derfyslove (245)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Absolutely! I definitely think you will get farther in life by being kind and respectful of others. Fighting doesn't get you anywhere. A lot of people find it very frustrating when you don't want to fight or argue back.
@derfyslove (245)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I think a lot of people are, even if they don't realize it! Thanks for your reply :)
@drewtamayo (130)
• Philippines
31 Oct 06
Well now that im thinking, i think i am both a lover and a fighter. But if i were to choose only one, I'd say that im a lover. I am a lover because Aside from doing good deeds to people, i also do some bad things to them to straighten and mold them simply because of what i am - a LOVER! :)
@derfyslove (245)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Thanks for your response! I think it's interesting that you feel you are both, but that the lover side is more dominant! Sometimes I think you can be a fighter in an emotional way, meaning that you are willing to fight hard for people that you love or about things that are important to you.
