Someone gives more love

relationships - holding hadns is the beginning of love.
@chestyna (113)
March 28, 2008 8:04am CST
Do you think that relationships where one of the partners love the other one more, does work? See I was in few relationships when I was younger, when I fell for the guys who didn`t love me the same way as I did. It felt like I love them more. And I was always the one who got hurt. Then I met my husband and it was the best thing that could happen to me, we were so in love and we still are and we were blessed with beautiful boy. But sometimes it feels like he is giving me more love than i am giving to him and i am thinking if he loves me more than i do. Makes me feel horrible, even thinking about that, because i love him so much. Or maybe it is just that he shows his love different way than I do, i dont know. But I dont want him to feel how I felt in those relationships in past. Do you think it is stupid, that it is even crossing my mind?
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@Breath (1298)
• United States
28 Mar 08
Each person has a different way to show love.I am sure your husband knows how much you love him.Just remember to show it in little ways.Surprise him from time to time.Keep the magic alive in any way you can.I am glad you have found a love that loves you just as much.I have been in one sided relationships where I gave my whole heart.I was the one who got hurt.The answer is no.I believe it takes both people to want to make any relationship or marriage to work.One person can't do all the work.It takes love and respect from both people to keep the relationship going.It is not even fair to put everything on one person's shoulders.Can't carry the whole relationship's on your shoulders alone.
@chestyna (113)
28 Mar 08
Thank you very much for your comment, I am doing many little things to let him know how much he is loved. And I know he knows that. And you are right one person cant make whole relationship works, it has to be two people. I wish you good luck in your life.