Making a choice between go abroad or not?

China
March 28, 2008 8:40pm CST
You are now a year 3 university student, and you have the chance to go abroad for master degree, so you are thinking of it. You have a boyfriend, he will not go abroad with you because of some reason, and he will start work then. You have asked him for advice, he says that he will not stop you doing what you want to do and he will wait for you if you have decided to do so. However, long distance may create the feeling of strangeness, and you are still worrying about you are not standing by him when he needs you. If it is you, what will you do, go abroad or not?
2 responses
@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
29 Mar 08
Wow, such a nice bf. Yeah, i prefer to go abroad, since i can learn new things and also learn how to keep my loyal and responsibility as his woman. It makes me also learn how to trust person, even you cant face him everyday, maybe only per week or even per month...and you can do it in internet, emails, and messenger. I will not worry if i leave him, since he is the one who promised me that he will wait for me. As time goes by, and if he is not able to keep his promise, then i think he is not the best man for me, and i believe God will give another person, who is better and more responsible...
• China
29 Mar 08
Yes, you are an optimistic person, what you said is senseful, but sometimes you will feel it is hard for you to leave your boyfriend for a year, and because of the time difference, it will be hard to contact with each other.
• China
29 Mar 08
well i think it's really difficult ! i saw the same thing at TV ,in the end of the TV the heroine because of her turely love he give up a chance to go abroad!
• China
29 Mar 08
Yes, that what I saw in the TV too, but in reality, it's really difficult.