What do you do to people who have something smart to say?

United States
March 29, 2008 3:12pm CST
Some of us just can't stand someone smart idea. Like when we do something, that Smart Alec will come out of nowhere and downgrade us. If that happens/ happened to you, what would you do? Please let me know!
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• United States
29 Mar 08
I must admit, this is one of those things that irritates me. The way I respond usually depends on what type of day I'm having. If the day is good, I'll say something along the lines of "Why would you say something like that?", if the day is only okay, I'll say"I'm sorry, I must have misunderstood, because you couldn't have said what I think you said?". If my day is going badly or if I'm at the end of my patience, I'll say something like "That's really clever, did you think that one up on your own?". Smart alec remarks are a form of passive aggressiveness, and I prefer not to deal with that sort of behavior. I have noticed I usually get one of three responses from these people, either uncomfortable silence, they'll respond with "What's the matter can't you take a joke?" to which you respond "In my experience, jokes are funny", or they'll try to turn it around and say "You don't have to be so sensitive" to which you reply "of course, it must be me" in a tone that says we both know what's going on here. Either way, the smart alec remarks will stop around you! It's the same as dealing with intrusive questions - simply ask "Why on earth would you want to know that?". People who are rude can not stand being called on their behavior and quickly halt the offensive behavior if you say something about it each and every time. Good luck and I'm sorry your having to deal with this.
• United States
29 Mar 08
erm....thank you?
• United States
29 Mar 08
Sorry - that probably came out snarky - didn't mean to - I've got a friend who's hubby is really a smart alec to her and I think I spent too much time around them today - LOL!
@nAyOhMi14 (298)
• Philippines
30 Mar 08
Don't be insecure, if you want to learn be around with the smart people, just learn from their ideas. There's no big deal about that, the problem is what you think.
• United States
30 Mar 08
not literally "smart," i ment for example: if they ask are you threowing up and in return they ask "do you see throw up," is what i ment
• India
29 Mar 08
it didnt happen for me as im really smart enough to put my friends in back foot what i observed is after that they would come up with good views
• United States
29 Mar 08
thats deep