what would you have done.

United States
March 29, 2008 10:50pm CST
I have a family cell plain wich my brother and SIL are on and monday or tuesday the new bill came in and I was looking at it and my brother had 682 text. For some reason (i can not explain why) I started dinging and found out at least 500 of them was to this number that I did not know and it was not on my SIL phone. So I starting digging even more and found out what city the number was from, the I went on his myspace and look at his profile and saw that the person in his 3 spot was from this city. Now I know for a fact that my SIL does not know this person, I also know that she used to leave a lot of comments on his profile before there internet got turned off. So I think he may be having a afair. I told my hubby and he told me to stay out of it. I did not sleep good the rest of the week thinking about it. After every one went to bed last night I called her (I knew she would be alone) and told her what I had found. I could not live with myself not telling her, but now I have to keep this from my hubby. I can live with keeping this from my hubby because I know once it is all said and down (what ever happens) I will till my hubby that I told my SIL. SO what do you think? What would you have done?
2 responses
• United States
30 Mar 08
I think I would have done the same thing. My husband often tells me not to get involved in other people's drama, and usually I heed his advice and leave it alone. But in this case, I think I would have done exactly what you did--the right thing.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
30 Mar 08
Thats a sticky situation. I would not tell your SIL. You have every right to look over the bill because it is your plan. I would bring it up to your BIL and just ask. If you want to be really nosy you can try to take his phone and go through it, but that usually isn't the best thing to do.