how to be a good wife?

@chenpan (381)
China
March 31, 2008 4:07am CST
i have't got married,but i show great interest of being a wife. In my imagination, if i get married and become a wife of someone, i will cook soup for him every day. i will doing massage for him every night.
5 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Aug 10
Well i feel perseverance is greatest quality of a good women as a wife. She can take more care of her husband and adjust and love more than any in this world!!
• Singapore
13 Apr 08
I think being a good wife is not just about cooking and household chores. For me a good wife means you are there for your husband in good times and in struggles too.
@Syrentie (17)
• Latvia
9 Apr 08
Well... Imagining is nice and all... But cooking soup every day simply makes you a good chef. A good wife is not the one who does the cooking and massage every night (although is is a good side, no doubt). Women who cannot cook are still loved by their husbands. A good wife is someone who will support her husband, I guess. Someone who loves him and tries to do his best so her loved one would be happy. A husband isn't just a cat who needs food and petting. He is your soul mate, after all. =)
@Swaana (1205)
• India
9 Apr 08
As I learnt that to win a man's heart, you should win his stomach first, I learnt to cook all his favourite dishes, but how much well I cook, I cannot beat his mom and grandmom But yes, I am trying to make his day a day for him, by keeping the house clean and doing things for him. Though not 100% perfect, I know I am doing what I need to do.
@chazsgirl (256)
• United States
12 Apr 08
yeah umm.. where are you from? I want someone to do that for me! go on men sites and see if you have a man say that, if you do he's not really a man! I think in a perfect world that would be great but what do you expect him to do for you? I know what I expected and I should have listened to my aunt and no gotten married! marriage is a trap! True and from the heart my marriage is a bear trap and I have a half chewed foot! open your eyes and discover life for what it really is! You won't have a hard time finding a man to marry you but you will bored and unhappy forever!