Why do lesbians get mad if your not labelled?

United States
April 2, 2008 2:42pm CST
When first meeting someone...Im always asked that million dollar question...... What are you femme, Agressive, or ...etc? I always answer Im me! I like to dress classy girly sporty and sometimes comfortable. My attitude is way girly but I like to be dominate with in a relationship with a female. What am I?
2 responses
• United States
2 Apr 08
I think people just really like having labels attached to objects and people because it helps them classify things. Obviously, labels aren't important to me. I like using them to kind of figure out what I'm all about, but I do not find them necessary to address myself to other people.
@nolipo (407)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Yea I agree I've never labeled myself and people thinks thats odd. Like they always ask me what are you looking for femme or butch. I always say it doesn't matter to me as long as we are attracted and we like each other. Personality, and that sort of thing is way more important than labels.
@david2005 (798)
• Canada
14 May 08
I think that you are one of gods children and that you can like whoever and whatever you want too as long as your happy.