would you cheat on the one you love

Grenada
April 3, 2008 8:09pm CST
would you cheat on the one you love if you knew there was no way he/her would ever find out?
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18 responses
• United States
4 Apr 08
Although I've wondered what it'd be like, I'd never cheat on my fiance even if she couldn't find out. I'd feel so guilty inside because I'm loyal to her and she hates dishonesty. It's not like I'd have to volunteer the information, but I'd feel obligated to tell her since I share everything with her. I think an honest relationship is awesome. After being with her for almost four years, I don't need another relationship. I don't need the thrill of being with someone else. I'm sure those feelings will come and go later on, but I don't think it would be worth it because of the guilt I would feel afterwards. I don't know if my fiance would ever forgive me or if she'd even stay with me after something like that because I'm always turning myself in. I always end up telling her everything after a while. She wouldn't find out from anyone else, but I'd tell her because I wouldn't be able to take it anymore. I guess my conscience is really strong. I consider it a good thing sometimes and really annoying other times. Really interesting subject.
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• United States
7 Apr 08
Thanks for best response. I'm glad you agree because I believe people should be honest with the one they love the most.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
5 Apr 08
If you would refer to a person as the one you love, what would be the point to cheat on him or her? What's the point in having a relationship at all? If you love him or her, you would never want to do anything that would hurt their feelings. You would not have that need to keep any secrets from him/her. Imagine if that person we love would cheat on us too, would it make us feel good? If I felt that I needed to try a new relationship, then I would just be honest enough to let the person I'm with right now know how I feel.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
4 Apr 08
No I wouldn't cheat on my husband even if I knew I wouldn't get caught. To me it is not about being caught or him ever knowing. It is about loving him and myself too much to do that to us. I am committed to making our relationship work even through the tough times and having something like that existing, even if only one knows about it, cuts the odds of success by a lot.
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@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
From my experience better not. I was 17 when i cheated but my bf was determined to have me back so yeah we got back after that.. Shame on me, I cheated on a guy that i never thought cares and love me.. Wont do anything stupid ^+^ now were together and back again after 4 yrs.. We'll add more to that 5yrs we had together!
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@beelover (33)
• Indonesia
4 Apr 08
if you cheat, it means you don't love him/her enough. Just leave him/her, if you feel comfortable with someone else.
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• India
1 May 08
ya i cheat my gurl.... m gng araound with a girl one day a girl met me on orkut....i used to to talk with tht girl every day....slowly slowly i felt in love with tht girl...and m now m serious with tht girl...and i left my first girlfriend
• China
7 Apr 08
that is depends on what kind of things? but I prefer not
• New Zealand
7 Apr 08
hey no way as far as I see it you have to put your self in your partners shoes if you happen to even be thinking of it then if you would not want them to cheat on you then you would know not to cheat on them personally I never would cheat on any of my partners.
@rposta07 (240)
• United States
7 Apr 08
I believe that if you are truly in love with another person, you will not want to cheat on them. The guilt would simply be overwhelming! And I just dont think it would be satisfying. When you are in love, things are different. Even slight touches. thats why I just dont think I would even enjoy myself. I would constantly compare this other person to the one I love and it just wouldnt be the same.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
1 May 08
of course i wouldn't dare to cheat him because i love him and because your conscience would kill you and i know that if i do that, karma will strikes back at me
@cross10 (506)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 08
Trust and honesty are the most important part in a relationship.When you already get those from your mate, dont ever waste it.I would never do that to my gf, they maybe dont know,but your heart does know. be honest to yourself
@viewpoint (137)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
I would never do that. Cheating is selfishness. A cheater wants to keep several relationships all at the same time. He wants to have it all!
@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
7 Apr 08
I think when fall in love, people should share everything with each other. Follow that, I believe that love is long lasting. No one like his self/her self had treated.
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
30 Apr 08
NO IM NOT THAT TYPE OF GURL AT ALL
@miller1978 (1101)
• United States
4 Apr 08
Absolutely not. I don't want or need anyone else because the man I am with treats me better than anyone I have ever been with. To me it doesn't matter if they could or could not find out, it's about being honest with yourself as a person. If you truly care about the one you are with you wouldn't even think about it.
@Emma_Wang (210)
• China
4 Apr 08
That would on some case,the answer can not be no or right,you know, everyone in our life will tell a lie,that depents on th egood propose or bad propose.if you cheat your lover just want to let him far from harm,maybe it is all right for you,you know,even believe there is hide a lie!
@meiji15 (664)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
with the way you worded your question, how can one cheat on the person he/she loves? if one partner cheated, most probably he/she fell out of love.
• United States
5 Apr 08
I think this is actually impossible because if you loved the person you can't cheat on them. Love doesn't include cheating no matter what!