Once you know.

@ciades (1624)
Philippines
April 4, 2008 12:07am CST
Once you know that the person whom you love or you married was married from the other girl before you meet and never had a divorced. How you will react or how you feel that your not the real spouse, your just the second and your marriage is not be consider as legal. And the most hurting part you have already a child. How you handle this kind of situation?
4 responses
@dpk262006 (56217)
• Delhi, India
4 Apr 08
It is illegal in our society to get married again, when one is already married. If it happens with me, I would immediately go for divorce, because it is cheating, which cannot be igonroed, at any cost.
@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
yeah your right. even me deepak i can't tolerate this. It's really cheating and couldn't take it.
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@dpk262006 (56217)
• Delhi, India
4 Apr 08
So we think alike!!
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@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
6 Apr 08
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
6 Apr 08
In my country it is illegal and I would have him arrested plan and simple. I would tolerate such deceit and lies.
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@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
yeah, good plan of yours rose!
@subha12 (18453)
• India
4 Apr 08
Actually it is not legal in my society. then this marriage will be annulled. the person will be dragged to court i guess. it is very bad from the point of view the person cheated like this.
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@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
yeah i agree with you subha.
@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
Hi there ciades! That happened to my aunt too. She learned after two years of living together with the man. What she did was check the first woman's and her man's marriage and learned that it was a fake wedding. That their wedding is not registered in the National Statistics Office. They got married after that so she is legally, the legal wife. If that happens to me, I would be really hurt because my husband wasn't honest with me and marriage is a really sacred thing. I will leave him if we don't have any kids yet but if we do, have kids, we'll fix it legally. Maybe I'll file an annulment case.
@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
Oh, your auntie really fight for it. Good for her...and i think she really love her partner,for sure.