what do you think ? having a brother or sister a ban or a boon ?

I have two sisters. I am the oldest out of the three. When we were growing up, I was the one that got into trouble for what they did. I was told that since I was the oldest, I should have taught them different. Most of the time, they did stuff that I had never heard of. When I was younger, having them was horrible. Now that I am older, I get along really well with my youngest sister. We talk every day and if we have a problem, we call each other. My middle sister only calls me when she wants something from me. She has always considered herself better than me and doesn't associate with me much. So in answer to your question, I feel it can be both ways.

i think its both.