be friend or be lover

I have had 2 friends where it was turning to the going out stage but we decided to keep things the way they were because we were afraid of losing the friendship! well needless to say 1 became a lover after a while and there is no friendship there over the fat that they couldn't become what they wanted to, a boyfriend, and the other one who was my best-friend didn't like choice in guys(my husband) and decided to part and not look back! Tough descision, but if I could I would go for the gold and see hwere we land!

i experienced the same situation. we were friends for almost 2 years or more.one day i told her i was in love with her.she said that she was no interested and it did not affect our frndship in any way and we are friends even today.it all depends on the frnd's psychology.

if he is a friend, i will not have the courage to tell him i like him or i love him. i am not sure about what the outcome will be. besides i believe that ladies dont make the first move and it cant be love if it is felt from a distance and i might just be confused as to what this feeling is.

In the normal course it should not affect friendship.Once you decide what is needed for you, stick to it. If it works out both ways its fine otherwise forget the second option safely.

I will told her.the worst situation is that our friendship is over.but I still have chance to start a sweet love trip.

it depends how long we've been friends, so of my friends tht are girls i would love to date cuz we get along so well, but i wonder if it would work out and wht if i didnt could we still be friends after. even thought i care and love them alot i dont think tht i could trade my friendship for a relationship tht could end the friendship. love makes u do crazy things tht sometimes has a bad reaction on a friendship. i would still tell them how i felt but i would try to date them. relationships come and go but friends can last u a life time, and thts wht i rather have a life time of friendship then a short relationship.

if you fall in love her/him,pls speak you love loundly