girls, will you purchase house together with your boyfriend when you marry?

China
April 8, 2008 8:33pm CST
If you are girls and not married yet, will you purchase house and refund bank loan together with your intending husband? If you are boys and not married yet, will your girlfriend purchase house and refund bank loan together with you? Everyone told me that life is true, not have so much romantic. But the fact is now the house is more and more expensive. Mostly, we need to apply loan from bank to purchase a house except you are in rich family. I am girl and i just fall in love with one poor guy, he has no money to afford house now. Maybe three years later, he can save and earn enough money. My family advise me to give up and find another richer one.But as you can understand, sometimes you love someone not because of his poor or rich. This makes me headache and confused. Life really needs money but i needs a lover. What is your suggestion? Do you mind if you need to afford house together with him?
2 responses
@subha12 (18454)
• India
9 Apr 08
i am girl. i think it can be possible to joiontly buy a house. but that person should be worth believing. that person should not leave nme. But if he earns much much more tahn me, why should I from my merge income?
• China
9 Apr 08
i do agree with you/ i just can not make sure if he worth my believing. that's why i am so confused.
@wy2008 (185)
• China
9 Apr 08
hi jiayunhong , are you chinese? i am chinese and i know that chinese face this problem , especially us 80s . well , what you say is really a realistic , it is very hard for us who just grauate from college to buy a house . you are lucky enough to find your ture love , so i think you should work together for the house , though it is back-busting , everything will become better and better , trust me .
• China
9 Apr 08
haha, yes, i am chinese too. you can read from my family name, right? i am not sure yet if he is the best one for me, we just start to know for short time, but good feeling. i hope we can live happiness life in future. thanks !