are you a good listener?

@cross10 (506)
Indonesia
April 9, 2008 2:07pm CST
i will say that myself is a good one, but sometimes when i'm tired i usually ingore people. What about you?
4 responses
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
I am a good listener. My friends and family usually go after me if they need ears to listen, that's me. :) I guess I just love listening to their stories and make some advices there.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
10 Apr 08
i think i am a good listener, probably because i tend to be quiet and a thinker, so i tend to listen more than talk. and sometimes i end up listening to stuff i dont care to listen to because people want to tell me their crap. but it worked out well for me because i decided to be a writer and that is how i get my real ideas from. inspirations from real people with their real garbage.
• United States
9 Apr 08
I consider myself to be a good listener, however I will not listen to a person that is drunk. I refuse to deal with people who wish to intoxicate themselves day after day from sun up to sun down. It's one thing I just don't do.
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
Being a great listener makes you a great leader. A good leader is a good listener. Me, I'm a listener but not that good for sometimes I will just nod and talk back but I don't record it on my mind. Words just come out on my mouth. I do this because I don't want the speaker to think I'm not interested for maybe I could hurt them. But as I do this, sometimes I felt like tired of listening i will listen to it and response in a joke one to make the conversation more interesting. It's hard to speak if you don't know how to listen. TRUST ME. Listening is a good way of communicating with others. But also include understanding. What's the use if your listening on another language. Could you understand it.. But for animals. Listening to them and we could sometimes understand what they are expressing.