love or cheat?

China
April 9, 2008 9:26pm CST
hi, every one, whats your opinion about a man who betrayed his wife, however, then he lefet his lover - who is a single girl-and back to his wife but he still keeps saying loving the girl. by the way, he and his wife have a five years aoughter. its a little complicated, however, would you like to tell me your attitude towards these thre persnos.if you are the husband, how you can handle this, you know be with the wife and keep loving the girl? is this not hurt to you? if you are the wife, would you like to know the truth? an if you are the girl, would you like to give this man or you want to keep this relationship? if you want to blame, who you will point to? and will you call this is love? or just cheating?
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
10 Apr 08
think this man is really sick. he is so fluctauating taht he does not know whom to love. or may be he looks for his own amazement but is not commmitted at all.
• China
10 Apr 08
thank you, very glad to hear someone called him as sick
@globell45 (142)
• United States
10 Apr 08
If the man cheated on his wife, he will cheat again and again. It is a sign of immense immaturity. The wife would be better off knowing what kind of creep she is married, because if the man is with her out of knowing that she has his kid, she is much better off knowing about him. The girl friend is just a poor pathetic excuse he uses for his own gratification. He was using her and if she lets him, he will use her again. I would tell both of these women to dump his butt and quick. Better to be alone than with someone like that.
• China
10 Apr 08
thanks very much, i also agree this is the best thing to do for the two poor women. thank you again