Can you avoid being INSECURED!!
April 11, 2008 11:33am CST
I can say honestly that I am insecure with women who have voluptuous body and face like Angeline Jolie..lol... i think it's normal to feel insecure as long as it's not destructive to your personality and relationship with other people.. To feel insecure is inevitable to human beings particularly that we have needs and wants to fulfill, and as long as we can't fulfill them, we tend to feel discontented or even want more... But i believe that if insecurity is perceived in a positive way, it might be of help to the individual to even make him/herself better as a person, develop his/her skills or potentials, or assets he/she might have, so as to overcome the dissatisfaction he/she feels..
• Dominican Republic
12 Apr 08
Well that is certainly one way of looking at insecurity. I am probably insecure as you put it with women who are in good shape physically, I have to lose some weight and it is annoying me that I have put so much on. But as you say, as long as you don't let the insecurity take you over then there is no harm in it. Some negative things are just as good as having positive things in your life, it certainly does mold a person. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us on this.
• United States
11 Apr 08
Insecurity can be endearing or it can be dangerous to a relationship. For example, I was in a relationship where my partner did not want me to touch my closest male friend in any way. I wasn't supposed to hug him, but that's how we've interacted since the moment we met. That kind of insecurity is dangerous. Almost anything can be dealt with in a relationship as long as there is communication. No communication means it's doomed to fail no matter how you feel or what else you do.