Do you have friends from an opposite gender?

@myanime (434)
April 12, 2008 12:15pm CST
If you do.. How many? If none, Why?
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@Elixiress (3893)
23 Apr 08
Yeah. I am not sure how many, since I am not sure how many are friends and how many I just know and hang around with. Probably say about 10ish. I don't see gender as an issue when it comes to friends.
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@ankilla (326)
• India
17 Apr 08
Yea as I had worked in different firms I have many opposite gender friends
• Indonesia
17 Apr 08
Well, I have many of them (well, a lot), but few from same gender. First, because mostly I could talk with the opposite genders better than with the same gender. Mostly it was because the interests did relate to their interests too. But when I faced my friends from the same gender (females), mostly the topic was around the same range (lifestyle, gossips, and other female talks), and not very wide range. Sometimes I would need to discuss things that mostly were not their interests but the males’, like some heavy news around, the internet, computer related topics, online earning, some certain field’s articles, etc. That’s why I rarely get around the female friends; I would go out with them only when I would really dedicate the time to do the female things like shopping or female talks.
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• United States
17 Apr 08
yup I have a lot of male freinds they are not messy like most women are
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@zuyoji (82)
• Singapore
16 Apr 08
I got lots of friends no matter is it from the same gender or different gender. I'm like buddy to many people. Therefore, i do not know how many opposite gender that i have as i have lost count or should i say, do not brother to count how many opposite gender i have. Most of them add up from my primary school, secondary school, and now polytechnic. It's all come down to the school i have studied as my class has more gouys than female so all you have is just to be friend with the males and also definitely be friends with the female. Maybe it is also my character that really suit to be buddy buddy with the guys. Or esle even how many guys you have in the class, you will also do not know many of them. So actually, there are a lot of small details that result to having lots or none opposite gender in your life.
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@pooh08 (672)
• Vietnam
13 Apr 08
I have a lot of opposite gender friends. Because we are the friend now and the future. Have a opposite gender friend isn't crime.
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@carinio98 (2935)
• Philippines
13 May 08
yes i do have many friends in my opposite gender. i do like to have many friends in my opposite one its just that im a playboy
@myanime (434)
14 Nov 08
Hehe you always says that you are a playboy,.. tsk.. Hehe thanks for responding,...
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@carinio98 (2935)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
what can i do i cannot hide myself underneath the bedroom and start acting like a holy pope. im not like that.
@myanime (434)
14 Nov 08
hehe ok,... I understand you,... just saying " ayaw muh pagmalaki?" hehehehe! "wula lang" How's your day kuya?
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• Philippines
12 May 08
I have but only few. I really appreciate and value their friendship to me. In fact, for me, guys would be really good friend than the girls. Although, I am lucky to have my friends, but sometimes I do think they are better friend than the girls,that is if they are truly friend of yours, because you can easily to talk to them without malice and envy. They will be loyal to you and they won't give you bad opinions out of competitions unlike girls. And also, it's nice to know the male perspective, I find it easy to solve problem if you know both male and female opinions. XD
• China
14 Nov 08
what does XD mean? 3ks
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Ah, it means smile or something, usually it's common to use it here in our country in text or messages. I used it because that time I can't use yet mylot codes , so as a alternative for smile emoticons, I used it.
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
i do have but they are only a few, my high school friends are 13 including me. my college friends are 18 more or less, they are my classmate since the first day of college. so all in all i only got 31... hehehe
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
oooppss, those are all my friends, the girls are only 4 in high school and 10 in college... heheh
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
hEHe.. yOU have lots of friends... Thanks for the response.....
@megumiart (3782)
• United States
12 Apr 08
I have a few friends that are boys, most of them I knew from childhood. I have a weakness of liking boys more than just friends, if I meet new male friends these days. xD
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
Ah... that's a real weakness... hehe.... Thanks for the response megumiart...
• China
14 Apr 08
So many!But the best maybe 2.Sometime I need the mind the idea of them. They need me too.They are very sweet but we are not girl friend or boy friend, just good friends.
@23uday (2998)
• India
14 Nov 08
Hi frnds, I don't have that much an opposite gender.I don't have much girl frnds to me but i am having a frnds to me. I have maximum frnds to me but less girl frnd.
@myanime (434)
14 Nov 08
Helo friend,...I see,.. You have less girl friends,..but still you do have a friend from opposite gender,... Hehe thanks for responding,...
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@TerryYuan (229)
• China
14 Nov 08
several, maybe few r 2 close
@myanime (434)
14 Nov 08
oh... I see,.. Thanks for responding,...
@julyteen (13261)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Apr 08
i have lots of friends from opposite gender. they are comfortable with our friendship. i can't on their numbers. they are always go on me specially if they have problems. i am the counselor of their problems sometimes. they trust me and i trust them also.
@rombi001 (943)
13 Apr 08
That's nice... I usually find female friends to be better listeners and give better advice, especially when it comes to relationships...
• Bahamas
12 Apr 08
I have a few male friends.We have so much in common and they call me lil sis, i can talk to them about anything and they give me great advice.I find that when it comes to me they're not judgmental...but they are a little over protective. And i love and respect them just as much as my female friends.
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
And you have an instant savior, right? Hehe... Thanks for the response dragonfly242....
@Swaana (1208)
• India
12 Apr 08
My best friend is a male. We have been friends for almost 18 years. We have been friends right from our school time. The best part is my husband and his wife accepted our friendship and she became a good friend of mine and my husband became a good friend of my friend. We share so many things under the sky and both of us are a shoulder to lean upon for each other. But still we both have friends from our own gender and we move around with them too. But when it comes to pointing out a best friend we both point out each other.
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
Wow... How cute... Nice story... Goodluck on your friendship!!! Thanks for the response
12 Apr 08
I do have friends from other gender,and I've got 1 bestfriend at that.It's nice to have one coz you'll able to understand the characteristics or pesonality wise of the other gender that you can't get from your siblings.
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
you have a point there dignadice.... Thanks for the response....
@crzy_ant (19)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
i don't really have many friends from the opposite gender. i guess i'm not that approachable enough to be friends with them.
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
Oh... Are they scared to appraoch you? Saan ka sa Cavite? I'm from Cavite too... Hehe.... Thanks for the response crzy_ant.....
• India
12 Apr 08
2 or 3 I guess.. Not much of a friendly person you see. I just do not like to talk to girls, at least the ones who stay close by or study with me at college. eh.. disgusting characters.. I would prefer stay alone rather than mingling with these ****** bourne
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
oh...I see... thanks for the response
@xboxboy (5588)
12 Apr 08
i have many friends that are female as i find you do not have to compete in the macho world of Alpha male.
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
Hehe you are like charlie in chalie's angel,,,.... So you have more than 3 angels eh... Haha.... Thanks for the response xboxboy....
@jason_co (408)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
I have much friend of opposite gender. I have friends from different locations in our country and from other country also. Germany to be specific. They are to many to enumerate.
@myanime (434)
13 Apr 08
I guess you are really friendly... Thanks for the response...