Do you have friends from an opposite gender?
17 Apr 08
Well, I have many of them (well, a lot), but few from same gender. First, because mostly I could talk with the opposite genders better than with the same gender. Mostly it was because the interests did relate to their interests too. But when I faced my friends from the same gender (females), mostly the topic was around the same range (lifestyle, gossips, and other female talks), and not very wide range. Sometimes I would need to discuss things that mostly were not their interests but the males’, like some heavy news around, the internet, computer related topics, online earning, some certain field’s articles, etc. That’s why I rarely get around the female friends; I would go out with them only when I would really dedicate the time to do the female things like shopping or female talks.
16 Apr 08
I got lots of friends no matter is it from the same gender or different gender. I'm like buddy to many people. Therefore, i do not know how many opposite gender that i have as i have lost count or should i say, do not brother to count how many opposite gender i have. Most of them add up from my primary school, secondary school, and now polytechnic. It's all come down to the school i have studied as my class has more gouys than female so all you have is just to be friend with the males and also definitely be friends with the female. Maybe it is also my character that really suit to be buddy buddy with the guys. Or esle even how many guys you have in the class, you will also do not know many of them. So actually, there are a lot of small details that result to having lots or none opposite gender in your life.
12 May 08
I have but only few. I really appreciate and value their friendship to me. In fact, for me, guys would be really good friend than the girls. Although, I am lucky to have my friends, but sometimes I do think they are better friend than the girls,that is if they are truly friend of yours, because you can easily to talk to them without malice and envy. They will be loyal to you and they won't give you bad opinions out of competitions unlike girls. And also, it's nice to know the male perspective, I find it easy to solve problem if you know both male and female opinions. XD
• Davao, Philippines
13 Apr 08
i have lots of friends from opposite gender. they are comfortable with our friendship. i can't on their numbers. they are always go on me specially if they have problems. i am the counselor of their problems sometimes. they trust me and i trust them also.
12 Apr 08
I have a few male friends.We have so much in common and they call me lil sis, i can talk to them about anything and they give me great advice.I find that when it comes to me they're not judgmental...but they are a little over protective. And i love and respect them just as much as my female friends.
12 Apr 08
My best friend is a male. We have been friends for almost 18 years. We have been friends right from our school time. The best part is my husband and his wife accepted our friendship and she became a good friend of mine and my husband became a good friend of my friend. We share so many things under the sky and both of us are a shoulder to lean upon for each other. But still we both have friends from our own gender and we move around with them too. But when it comes to pointing out a best friend we both point out each other.
12 Apr 08
2 or 3 I guess.. Not much of a friendly person you see. I just do not like to talk to girls, at least the ones who stay close by or study with me at college. eh.. disgusting characters.. I would prefer stay alone rather than mingling with these ****** bourne