What characterizes your ideal man/woman?

April 13, 2008 2:06pm CST
I know very well that reality often does not match with our expectations but it doesn't hurt to dream right? :D So I listed some characteristics I want my future spouse to have. 1) has intellect and wit - must be able to carry conversations with me, must love philosophizing and reasoning 2) has a great sense of humor - must be able to make me laugh or else our days together would be boring 3) has a clean and neat personality - since I don't like messy people who do not care about their appearance and their manners 4) loves music and has to be able to play at least one musical instrument - because I would want to play with him, never mind if he can't sing because I would sing for him 5) appreciates art - is not necessarily an art fanatic, rather, someone who knows how to express admiration when a piece calls for it 6) sensitive - because I am usually secretive and I would like him to know my needs even before I tell him 7) kind, generous, and fair - because he should not only be able to treat me well but he should also treat other people in the best way he can 8) reliable and dependable - because I wouldn't want an irresponsible father for my kids and I am not into nagging 9) has good genes - does not necessarily mean he has to be beautiful but he should be attractive enough or else I'll never see him 10) can hold jobs, earn and provide - because I wouldn't want to spend a lifetime with a bum. :D So if you are going to spend the rest of your lifetime with someone, what are your criteria? Please share too!
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@rmuxagirl (7561)
• United States
28 Apr 08
my perfect man: intelligence humor loves music in all forms unique personality has a good job: knows where he's going kind fair, compassionate, has a strong faith in God as I do willing to do things i like as well as teach me things he enjoys tells me he misses me and loves me when he can love literature and can hold a conversation about it and so much more....it would take forever to describe my perfect man, whom i have found.
@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Apr 08
cute, great looking butt, funny, caring, loving, knows wht she wants, none drama.