what do u feel is a good age

United States
April 15, 2008 12:25am CST
most kids r getting pregnant at 16,17 and 18 now a days what do u feel is a good age to have a baby?
3 responses
@Flight84 (3050)
• United States
20 Apr 10
I had wanted to be in my early twenties to get pregnant, but my husband and I decided to wait a few years. I'm now 25 and we're expecting our first baby in June. I feel comfortable with this age because my husband and I have been married for almost 7 years so we've had time together to be just 'us' and we're mature and ready for our baby. Plus, we're still young and energetic and I know we have so much to offer our baby. On the flip side of this, only the people involved know if the time is right for them. I know it's a surprise more times than not with young kids and I'm certainly not promoting teen pregnancy, but some people around 18-19 can handle the responsiblilty just fine. My best friend was 18 I think when her and her husband got married and found out she was pregnant. They've been together now for almost 11 years, have 2 kids, and a beautiful house and have a happy life. It depends so much on the people involved.
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
15 Apr 08
Hello,busta1babby! The ideal age for a girl to be married is beyond 18 and to be a mother of child will be definitely not earlier than 18.but the right age for a boy and a girl for marriage in our society is 30 and 25 respectively. because at that time both will be mentally matured for parenthood.thank you.
@nowment (1758)
• United States
15 Apr 08
Over all I would think that most should wait until in their twenties before getting pregnant, and having kids, this gives the men and women time to grow up and get some clearer idea of where they want to go with their lives, perhaps give the one who would be parent time to get a decent job to afford the child they bring into the world. In general it is not wrong or right to have a child at any particular age, it is up to the people involved, I have meet some people who were mature and grown up at age 15 and I have meet some who were very immature and childish at age 30 so it really does depend on the person.