Childhood friends. Do you still keep in touch?

@dandj929 (423)
United States
April 15, 2008 2:53pm CST
I was looking through photo albums at my mother's house the other day from when I was little. I looked at all my childhood friends and realized I don't have any contact with them anymore and it made me a bit sad. I love all of my friends that I have now, it's just that I have so many happy memories of my old friends and I would like to reminisce with them. Do you still have contact with your childhood friends or do you have all new friends now that you are an adult?
7 responses
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
16 Apr 08
Yes, I am 56 years old and live 1,000 mies away from where I grew up. I moved away 36 years ago.But I do still stay in touch with 2 of my friends from school. We e-mail one another almost everyday.We call each other, and when I do get a chance to go home on vacation, we have a great time with each other. I do have a lot of new friends here where I now live, but there is just something about the ones I grew up with, they are still very special to me, even though we live miles away from one another..
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@dandj929 (423)
• United States
16 Apr 08
It's great that you still keep in touch. I am envious of that! Thank you for sharing.
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
6 May 08
Thank You for the best response. I really am very thankful that I do have such great friends from my childhood and that I have been able to stay in touch with them all these year, to me this is very important.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
16 Apr 08
i try to with as many as possible. still i think it always not possible from my part only. that person must be willing to keep touch. gaian in course of life many are drifted apart.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
16 Apr 08
I have been out of school for almost twenty-five years now, and we did keep in touch for the first several years. But with moves and busy lives I am afraid that we are no longer closely bonded. I do contact one former friend from time to time, but our ways are much different from each other - it is fun to briefly connect, but we quickly run out of things to discuss.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
16 Apr 08
I tend to get all nostalgic and melancholy for old friendships a couple of times a year - I try to find out what has become of them and might be able to contact one or two - but it quickly fades away... the old friends do not share my nostalgia I suppose. I did find a few at myspace, which was interesting. One who will coorespond a couple times a month is actually the brother of a friend.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Apr 08
Both. The wonderful thing about the internet is that it has made it easier to get back in touch with people you've lost touch with. I've kept contact with a few school friends and I've gotten back in touch with some through the internet!
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• United States
6 May 08
I grew up in the life of a gypsy. I say this jokingly, but truthfully as well. We moved as much as a military family, we changes scenery like we changed our underwear. So it was hard making friends, let alone keeping in touch with them. I've lost contact with all of them. One pops in and out of my life every once in a while. But it has been about 3 years since our last contact. To be really honest with you. I don't even have any of the same friends I had 5 years ago, outside of my very close family relationships that is.
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
Not regularly. Many of us have taken diverging paths and even if we do try to contact each other, we cannot really connect. My childhood friends are scattered all over the world. When we meet each other, it's just hello's and see you's. Sometimes, I wonder if our friendship was really true. I guess it's a part of growing up. At least I still have the memories.
• Philippines
6 May 08
Unfortunately, no. Most of my childhood friends either migrated to another country or moved. Most of the friends I have today are the ones I met at work.