Freedom vs. Relationships.

@leanneg (178)
Canada
April 15, 2008 9:44pm CST
Is there ever the perfect relationship, like you know spending endless hours with your partner and just having plan fun. Now is there the perfect relationship where you let your bf/gf go out without having to worry about what they might do or not do, let them have their girls nights and guys nights without complain, and let them just be free. Come on if you trust them then why not trust them when they are out or with their friends. That's the kind of person I am....is that wrong? Guys/Girls how do you feel about having this kind of freedom in a relationship ?
2 responses
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
24 Jul 11
Love, do not suffocate! Each one involved in a couple needs his freedom. Before asking for freedom, respect, communication and trust in relationships need to reach a high enough point. It is true that having a relationship, you are restricted in certain freedoms, but there are many others that can replace the freedom you enjoy when you're alone. And most do not need all the freedom, you know that after the girls out, way out in the gym, a long meeting, a tiresome journey home someone waiting for you.
@gcrew931 (230)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
I think it is perfectly normal! You don't have to waorry much about the extent of freedom. I guess being able to trust your special someone already states that you love that person. Sometimes it also healthy for couples in a relationship to have some "me" time. It makes you grow and also foster a trusting relationship. Isn't that good thing? because I think it is! So don't you worry just keep on trusting because trust attracts more trust. Hope that really helps. Good Luck!