my friend need help with his love life

I think that he should see her. He needs to question what happen with her. He must to explain her:" This is wrong". She will believe him. Because they know each other.

i think there is just a miscommunication here... have your friend trie to talk to her, contact her... there must be a reason why she hasnt come to your place and meet with her bf.

I'm not sure if I get you right; but I'm reading from your post that the girl is so fickle-minded and is not sure if she is really inlove and totally involved with your male friend. What is clear is that your male friend is a hundred percent inlove with her, or maybe more than that. Assuming that no third party is between them, I believe both of them should talk it out and decide which path is their relationship heading? Are they both serious to make their relationship work? Or are they just having a "whirlwind affair"? A lot of people could have other million suggestions but no one else could solve this dilemma other than themselves. And one more thing, maybe you could tell your male friend to save some love for himself the next time around. It's really hard to wholly love someone and this someone just hurts you back. He's left with nothing for himself. Anyway, I hope he'll be okay and take care of his heart. God bless him and you, too.

I think they need trust each other and they need comunication. Don't worry if they really love each other

well...i don't quite get wot u said....but i think the best way might be to ask the gal directly!!!only she knows why she did that.and the key to keep a relationship is Good and sincere Communication!always talk the problems and solve them.

Hi cc_colina... we well I feel bad on what happens on your friend. But i guess he dont deserve to be broken by that girl. He should be happy because he knew early what kind of girl he was wasting his tim with, That girl dont deserve tha love that your friend gave to her. You can can help him by making him realize that theres a lot of preety and good girls that is worthy for his true love.

Well I think I would tell him to call her and ask her if anything is wrong. I don't understand young people of today, I never hate friends that went around telling lies. Oh yes some people did lie on my but they were such gossips in the neighbourhood and never my friends.

Well I think that they shouldn't worry about what others say. If she is unsure of trusting him now, I guess all he can do is stand firmer by her side and reaffirm his position. That is something she would have to address and thus there is not much your friend can do, but decide to pursue it further or back off. I think if they love each other, that will overcome the present difficulties they may be experiencing.

I think that he should see her. He needs to question her what happen. Then, he explains her" This is wrong".She will believe him . Because they know clearly each other.

I'm a bit surprise that girls would also be doing those things. Not to sound sexist or something but most often, guys would be the one doing the "not calling back" thing. But my advise to him is that he should try to re-assess his thoughts as to what he really feels for that girl. She does sound like she doesn't want to commit herself to him. Ask himself if the girl is really deserving of all his efforts and if she is then he must keep on pursuing her. But... if she's not worth all the trouble then he might just want to move on and find himself a girl that will always be there for him.