Can you love a person unknown to you?
April 15, 2008 11:21pm CST
People talk of love at first sight, meaning a boy meets a girl for the first time and fall in love with her. The girl is totally unknown to him. He does not even know her name. Is it really possible? I believe that to love someone you must first know him or her. What do you think friends?
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19 Apr 08
I won't speak of others but of myself and simply say that it does happen. I was in the seventh grade and belonged to a gymnastics team that practiced after school.The sixth graders would catch their bus to go home at the same time as I would get out of gymnastics practice so,I would use one of those buses to get home.I entered the bus spotted the girl and married her nine years later.Needless to say we did date at various times thruout those nine or so years and got to know each other.
16 Apr 08
acording to me its not correct. a person cannot have true love with the first sight. actually when a person see some other of opposite one then he gets attracted towards him or her,and if both are attracted towards each other then they starts talking to each and start meeting at various places like cinema halls etc. slowly and gradually they start loving each other and then when they are commited then at that time says that it was our first sight love... but just think that how a person can love another and promise to be of her without knowing her.....this cannot happen it is just a dilema which they see.at first sight is just a attraction feeling of a person towards another one.
16 Apr 08
I believe that this kind of attraction is called infatuation or admiration. It is generally or mainly because of physical attributes of a person which one finds interesting or admirable. Examples are dimples, fair complexion, simpleness, neat appearance, and stuff like these. Sometimes, one could also be attracted to another's attitudes even if he or she hasn't seen the other person yet. Specially during these times, when communicating through text messages is very prevalent; other people claim that they already love or feel something for their textmates. But more often, this attraction fades easily when they get to know more of the other person or while spending more time with them. I guess it's still best to know someone or a potential partner in life in a longer course of time and personally.