having a baby doesn't make me a lesser person

@mommah (24)
Philippines
April 17, 2008 5:37am CST
I fell in-love once and got cheated. Now, i am a mother of a very adorable boy with no father. I got married to a real bachelor but his family hates him because of marrying a mother. I've been badly judged and unaccepted just because i have a son? I did not hurt anyone. I don't play with emotions. I am not a bad person. Why this has to be like this? and my son has to suffer also....
2 responses
pooh08
@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
18 Apr 08
I think you and your son don't have fault. I only scold with the person you fell in love and he won't live the life in smooth waters.
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mommah
@mommah (24)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Yeah... i used to hate him sooo much. But everything has a reason and my life is better with my new guy anyway its just that his family questioned me for having a baby already. I believe theres always a karma.
Pescoe
@Pescoe (101)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Mommah...your husband loves you and your son...that's the most important thing...and I am sure that he will not hurt you and will be a good husband and father...
mommah
@mommah (24)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
You are probably right pescoe that my husband wont hurt me but it is his family hurting me. I can't just ignore things that is happening around me... but if i fight back my husband will get because they are still his family and im sure everyone would pinpoint me as faulty. So if disater happens... my husband couldn't replace his family so whither he will choose them or not, he has to. get my point? I just wished he really won't change until the end.
lananh
@lananh (49)
• Vietnam
17 Apr 08
You and your son do not to concern bad ideas about yourself. You live how you consider right. You do not wrong when you have a son with no father. because, it is not bad to do.You do not want to this happen, It is far to predict.
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