Is Your Lover good at sweet words?
April 17, 2008 10:58am CST
I have been stable with my boyfirend for nearly 6 years. For most time, he is not good at sweet words. He has his way of showing his love but not very good at using words. But recently he has moved me twice. Last weekend we went to the park to see cherry blossoms and when I took a photo of him and the light was agaist the camera and I could only see his shadow in the picture. I said sorry and asked whether I could take another photo for him. He said," It does not matter, what's most important is you watched me." I felt very moved and I thanked him for using such sweat way to show his forgiveness to my mistake. Two days ago, we argued by some trivial thing and finally we got into deadlock. The time was hard for both of us. But finally we got to know that we needed each other. In the night,we talked in bed and finally we became reconciled. We fell in love again. When I was awake in the mid-night, I said to him " We should conquer the influence from family education and it likes we are the pearls in the shell, with the tortue of sand, we finally can become very beautiful." Because this evening when we communicated with each other we checked our family education and the difference of our family education brought argument. He put his arm under my neck and said," My dear, we are like the two pieces of the shell and the pearl is our love." What a good poet!He said spontaneously a unique poetry! He is not a person who is good at love poetry. Therefore, his poetries are very precious. And I feel moved as long as I think of the two good moments. Thank God to bring these two miracles to me!
17 Apr 08
My bf is not really good at it, He used to sweet talk to me one year back , but somehow he has changed a lot since the last one year. He doesn't show his affection to me , he doesn't call me by sweet names and i really miss that now ~pinks~
18 Apr 08
When my boyfriend did not get used to sweet words, I gave him a task that he said he loved me everyday. And I also said that everyday. Days later, I did not notice him the task but he gradually formed a habit of showing his love to me. I guess you can use this way to change your boyfriend a little bit. And you also can say sweet words to him. When you want to take, give first. And you can tell him how happy when he said sweet words. Maybe you need to tell him you miss the sweet words of him because he may not notice his change in the year.
17 Apr 08
My hubby is not at all romantic but he does often surprise me with a lot of gifts and cards and surprisingly the card wud have every line that i want him to speak to me, but he does not express it himself, even if he does, it just does not work well for him...
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17 Apr 08
I am the type of woman to use poetry in almost everything I say or think.I am very romantic and soft.My husband does not have a romantic bone in his body and wouldn't know something sweet or romantic if it bit him on the butt...A few times he has made me feel swept away.I am glad you have these sweet memories of your boyfriends way of words.