Will you feel doubt before you getting merry?

Malaysia
April 18, 2008 4:28am CST
This topic is mainly discuss on will you feel some kind of uncertainty during the day you decided to get merry until the day you get merry. Uncertainty includes: is he / she the one that i look for to spend my whole life stay with? can i cope with his / her family members? is that means there is no more secret between us after get merry? etc... You are welcome to share what kind of uncertaintly you felt before / now.
2 responses
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 08
My advice is that if you're uncertain, it's best don't jump into anything yet. My wife & I were courting for 7 years before we tied the know. I don't mean 1 have to wait so long either but it's good to work things out ;)
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• Malaysia
18 Apr 08
Hi zweeb82, thanks for the response. Appreciate your advice also. just Wondering what you mean by your message on 'don't jump into anything'. Is that mean not decide getting merry?
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 08
Marriage is a big commitment. Don't jump into it if you're not sure but don't wait too long either if you're already sure ;)
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• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Hi zweeb82, Yes, i agree with you on the point of don't wait too long if we already sure about it. This is because i have been told about some of the real story which happened to my friends. They can just broke up after 5 years, 7 years get together. This might due too understand each other too much until realise actually he/she is not the one i want.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I believe at some point I had. And so will others as well. You get this way because you are wondering if you are making the right choice by becoming one with someone whom you have known for the longest. You just want to be sure that this is the person that you chose to spend the rest of your life with. This is a huge step.So it would make you feel as if you are taking a risk by becoming united with a person.
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• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Hi cream97, thanks for dropping by. Yes, it is really like taking a risk coz the choice could affect the rest of our life. I really agree with you point on: this is a huge step.