prefer gay or guy

I really don't care whether it is a guy or girl who sits beside me as long as they are quiet and nice. Gender doesnt matter as long as they respect you.

I've never had to ride a train. I am curious what your gays looks like. I mean, apparently according to you they look different enough to be spotted easily on a train. I guess our gays here just look like the rest of us so there wouldn't be any way for us to know if they are gay...unless we asked, which would be rude since being gay is nothing to worry about and it shouldn't matter. I'd choose which ever seat looked more comfortable and not worry about sitting next to a guy or a gay...or a gay guy...or a gay guy who used to be a woman.

I prefer the guy that's most friendly. Who wants to sit next to a Grump. If the guy talks to me....I'm cool. We can talk about Sweaters , or Motorcycles ( although my Knowledge of Motorcycles is limited ) The Most I know about Bikes is....Never wear a Dress and stockings on One. I Burned Both of my legs ( pretty Badly ) that way!

I would probably sit next to the gay. I find them to be brilliant conversationalists most of the time with wicked senses of humour. If he was dull and boring the next day I would sit next to the guy and see if he was funner to sit next to.