Have you ever loved someone so much you were afraid to lose them?

Canada
April 19, 2008 5:09pm CST
Have you ever loved someone so much you were afraid to lose them? Or Your afraid your not good enough for them? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Ive been dating my bf for 3 years now, and its like sometimes i find myself crying or questioning weather am good enough for them. I was wondering if anyone else has ever been in the same situation?
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• United States
20 Apr 08
All the time. i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. i am always nervous he will leave me because i love him so much and i have never been happier. i was very depressed and lonely before i met him and he helped me through so much. i feel like if he were to leave me, i would go right back to how i used to feel. i think if u r worried about it, it just means u love him alot and dont wanna lose him. u have been with him 3 years so it seems to me as if he finds you worthy. how is the relationship going. no need to worry if things are going fine.
• Canada
20 Apr 08
Yes i agree with all your saying. Your situation is alot like mine.
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
eyst you dont have to worry.as long as your going strong then your on the exact vibe,you love him,and he loves you,thats why you lasted 3 years.just be yourself, in order for you to know if he'll still be there for you being you self as you are,no pretending. just trust your boyfriend as he trust's you. because if trust is lost.it wasn't trust at all. be a GOOD girlfriend.and there's no way your gonna loose your guy,NOT unless you weren't really are meant for each other. okey!!!
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
yes, the last boyfriend that i have..the father of my baby..it was the very painful and the very depressing part of my life..he leave me because he's afraid of responsibility, that he also cheated me..i love him so much, i'm afraid of that time that he will leave me and he does..it's almost 4yrs now and i already moved on and happy with my child..i already forgiven him..
@viewpoint (137)
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
It's a crappy feeling, I know. When my hubby and I argue, I feel that way. I just hate the feeling and always wish things would straighten out between us.
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
19 Apr 08
oo yeah i fear that with my boyfriend now...cuz i have a anger problem and he cant stand it...but we r working on it together so all that will chance very soon
@ozzeth (940)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
yeah i am afraid..and its my fear since i committed to him. I think i already lose him now.