Happy to be single or aching to be in a relationship hours after a break up?

Philippines
April 21, 2008 11:16pm CST
Do you consider being single a blessing or a curse?
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@Cocoa33 (921)
• United States
22 Apr 08
sometimes i think that being a single is blessing sometimes. when i see people who i think got it made. when i see them they are smiles. i later find out they are at each others throats, there is abuse in the relationships. i am thankful that i am single. i dont need nobody around bringing me down. i can do bad alone.
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@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
i've been through several relationships for the past years. i can say that being single is a blessing at this stage of my life since i could focus now on my needs which i was not able to do when i was attached. i can also do a lot of things which i cant do before. i can fcus on my studies more. in the future i stll want to be with someone i love. im just glad that things happen for what is best for me. i hope the same happens to you.
• Philippines
12 May 08
thats why its called single blessedness. it teaches u alot. a real blessing.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
yes, i'm happy being single this time because i'm contented with my daughter.. i'm a single mom, busy working, i'm not saying that i dont have time for love, i do have but i think theres right time for that..i'm little scared in a way that i dont become hurt anymore..my last relationship is the most painful i ever had, so this time i have to be more clever enough in choosing the right guy..it's my choice, and i know theres right time for that, not now, but there is..
• Philippines
12 May 08
you'll heal in time. you're daughter is such a blessing, you need not find that someone just yet.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
6 May 08
I consider being single as a blessing because I can do many things that a guy could. However, it doesn't mean that being attached is a curse. I think that there are lots of things wonderful about being both single and attached and the best is to appreciate each journey as we go through. Because we never know when the next opportunity would pass us by and we are in another situation where we are no longer single and we start to ponder on missing our single life. So I suggest to take one step at a time and go with the flow life has to offer. Take care and have a nice day, my friend.
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
I think being a single and being attached is both a blessing. Other people can really adjust when they are in a relationship. Some people might be really happy with themselves. I actually admired people who are attached because though its hard. They still pursue just to make it work. Single people, i also admire them because me, I cant really go on without someone. It's just that I feel I am not safe.
• Philippines
12 May 08
yeah. there are perks in both status.
@jhesse03 (35)
• Philippines
3 May 08
ahm..as for me, being single is really a BLESSING........... ..a BLESSING in Disguise being that one is a blessing because there'll be no pains, heartaches, headaches, regrets and of course u won't be HOPELESSLY IN LOVE.. that's life.. come to think of it..there were so many things in this world that you can concentrate or focus on.. sometimes, love for the opposite se.x means nothing and it sometimes not sensible.. just focus on that stuff if you're already at the right age of settling down.. got it guys?!??!?!?
• India
22 Apr 08
well, I am single now and I am not searching for any one because I am feeling too much happiness in my self .... Another thing is ....I don't want to occupie my heart with feelings of other one ..... where my last partner is still living ..... thats all ......... thanks !!!
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
ow..being SINGLE is a very very BLESSING.......co'z for me im hassle-free....but when in a relationship life's more complicated..!! PROMISE...e_e @jam@ ~k33p saf3~