April 22, 2008 3:41am CST
Do you agree in having a secret marriage? Well, i did took it when i got married with my husband. We decided to have it because i was still in college and the promise (to my parents)is my graduation. I still have 2 years and he can't wait anymore. To make the story short, we dit it behind my parents back. Raising eyebrows? Yes i know.. I still feel bad when i think about it. BUT! It turns out to be a good thing after two months..i was pregnant. My parents wanted an immediate marriage. Well i am ALREADY married. They were shocked(of course)! But it was a relief, because in my country, most of my age get married ONLY because they were pregnant(which is like, the guy doesnt have any choice) Not me. To my surprise, he still gave me the proper wedding celebration. I still walked down the aisle(2 months pregnant) After delivering a baby girl, i went back to college. Tyring to make up that broken promise. I got my degree. And i made my parents proud. So looking back..i still feel bad about secret marriage. Or Rather feel bad about getting married behind my parents back. There are so many reasons couples do marry secretly. But i think whatever it is, marriage is supposed to be known by all the people concern. Besides it proclaiming your love to the whole wide world!