i am a nbsb!
29 Apr 08
I think it is just a matter of choice and you can easily put an end to that. Life is always risky and one increases one's chances of success if one is willing to try one thing and then another. Relationships are no walk in the park in spite of how wonderful it may be to some people. We all need to work at it. Practice makes perfect as they say.
27 Apr 08
Hi! Dont worry about it, we're just the same girl.^_^ Its not that im a nerd or a tomboy or anything like that. Its just a matter of choice for me. Like I think its also a matter of choice for those out there who have had a boyfriend or an MU(Mutual Understanding) or something like it. I think for them its more of an experience thing and maybe even a silent commitment for those who have known each other since birth. My other professors have said that its ok to have boyfriends while young and its also recommended because they said we're still young and we should enjoy oursleves and not to be too serious in life this early. But for me I prefer not too. I think of it as just a waste of time, money and effort. I have friends and family who can give me love and I dont need a specific someone to make my life interesting, well, at least not right now, and Im more into building my life for myself and when I ahve then I think thats the time that Ill be ready to take care of another person other than me, my family and my friends. So I guess from reading my post you'll know that I am a serious person. I jsut cant help it, its who I am. though, it is nice to be loved in a special way. So if you really want to have a boyfriend, then you go girl!^_^ Just pick the right one or at least pick a good one...Ill probablystay single for a few more years and continue flirting!LOL
27 Apr 08
Well, thats a way to put it.LOL! Your comment actually reminds me of a text quote and I cant seem to find it in my inbox. It goes something like 'advice on how to love:, for the boys, love your girl as if shes 18, not yet a girl and not yet a woman. Love her like she is the most beautiful girl in the world...(somthing, something, I forgot).....then..for the girls, love your man as if hes 8,let him go out and play with his toys because at the end of the day, he'll always go back to mum!' Sad but true, dontcha think?^_^
28 Apr 08
speaking of text message. it reminded me of a message about an apple on top of the tree. haven't you read it. if not, i would like to share it with you. i can't memorize it any longer but the thought goes like this. women who have not yet entered into a relationship is liken to an apple on top of the tree, they are too high for ordinary men to pick up. unlike apples who are easily reach, pick and eaten by men who are passing by. and those apples on top of the tree. only decided men will go up and pick the apple. I am an apple on top of the tree. And so are you!
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1 May 08
It is not always good to have a boyfriend if you are too young or immature. You are better to mature at your own rate. If you don't need anyone outside of friends and family then you are probably shy and should let yourself be until you feel you are ready getting involved with another person. Remember it is the things that you don't do that you regret and not the things you do. You should get a good confident and discuss the reason you never were interested in having someone in your life..maybe you prefer your own gender? well, it happens..it is in my family and my wife's family so no big deal..or maybe you are a recluse..maybe you don't need anyone ...that is ok too..
27 Apr 08
You are not alone... I am too... And I'm okay with it. Don't worry about it. If you're still young, i don't believe that there's a problem with that...But when you think you're starting to get old and yet don't have a boyfriend that's the time when I think you should start worrying...